Dear Future Parenting Without Drama Reader
From: The laptop of Kara Ferwerda
Re: Are you wishing that you could stop yelling, start connecting and have your children listen and obey?
Would it surprise you to learn that I achieved a more positive parenting style and have a much more positive relationship with my children using the information revealed in this 163 page book?
Skeptical?
You should be.
After all, you can’t believe everything you read on the internet :-)
so let me prove it to you
I have the benefit of actually being the parent I always wanted to be! I don’t feel like I am failing as a parent.
The average person who buys any “how to” information gets little to no results. I’m using these references for example purposes only.
Your results will vary and will depend on many factors …including but not limited to your background, experience, and work ethic.
All purchases entails risk as well as massive and consistent effort and action. If you're not willing to accept that, please DO NOT GET THIS eBOOK.
And yes, it took me time and energy to achieve my results.
With that said … let me jump right in and show you how I did it…
…By Using A Completely Counterintuitive Model That I’m About To Share With You On This Very Page…
The same Parenting Without Drama model that parents from all over the world are now using to get their children to listen without having to yell, threaten, or give punishments.
...And in turn become the parent you have always wanted to become faster than ever before...
...All while breaking old generational parenting patterns so you can focus on becoming a POSITIVE PARENT.
...And best of all, have your children WANT to listen and obey.
Just Like Kali And Her Husband Parker, Who Took My Classes, even Though They Didn't Have Any Kids Yet
Soon After, They Got Their First Deal Under Contract With A Motivated Seller And Then I Ended Up Posting This In Our Private FB Group:
Or Susan, Who Struggled with her 2 toddlers and needed help and direction
And even though getting a deal was amazing, that's not the best part...
The best part is they now have a framework that they get to repeat over and over during the entire lifetime of their business.
That's right, the systems I teach my clients and students are repeatable.
And David and Frankie aren't the only ones either…
This Is Joshua Nathan, Another 30-Day Deal Challenge Member, Who Enrolled In The 30-Day Deal Challenge Not Too Long Ago…
...And soon signed the papers with a motivated seller...
Here’s a post he posted in our private FB Community (which you will have access to once you download the program)...
Here’s another 30-Day Deal Challenge owner who started using these strategies…
Meet Jillian Who Got Appointments set up as soon as she enrolled
These Amazing People Are A New Wave Of Current And Future Parents Who Are Doing Things Differently…
And you can BET...
This Parenting Without Drama model is unlike any method you heard of before…
…This is something completely different, because…
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We don’t focus on dominant parenting styles
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We don’t focus on permissive parenting styles
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We don’t focus on disciplining with threats, reward charts, or time-outs
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We don’t focus on making our children bend to our rules
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We don’t focus on shutting down emotions that our children and ourselves feel.
Instead we parent WITH our children instead of OVER our children.
…and I know that’s true…
Because it changed everything for me.
The Parenting Without Drama model allowed me to get rid of 99% of all the nonsense that I hated when it comes to parenting…
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Yelling
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Punishments
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Sibling Rivalry
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Feeling like a failure
The Parenting Without Drama Method Freed Me From All That, And It Allowed Me To Learn How To Parent WITH My Children Instead Of OVER Them.
Here’s what my life used to look like (and if you’ve ever ran into a control battle with your children, then I’m sure you can relate)…
I call this the “Parenting Cycle Of Doom”:
Step 1 - Parent asks their child to do something
Step 2 - Child ignores parents request
Step 3 - Parent asks again
Step 4 - Child ignores, so the parent give a threat if their child doesn’t do as they are told
Step 5 - Child back talks or doesn’t listen as their parents yell at them
Step 6 - Child yells back
Step 7 - Parent gives a punishment
The Parenting Cycle Of Doom not only sucked, but kept me stuck for 3 years - forcing me to not become the parent I wanted to become!
To be honest…
...I almost gave up on this whole idea of Positive Parenting.
... But before I gave up..
I wanted to try something.
Something that - if it worked,
It would change everything.
And as you're about to find out, that's what I tried...
... worked...
And I spent years turning it into a system...
And I Put This Entire System In A 163 Page Book Called “Parenting Without Drama” And You Can Start Reading It In Just A Few Moments From Now…
But before you do.
I’d like to introduce myself and tell you about how all this came to be.
My name’s Kara…
You probably haven’t heard that name before. That’s by design.
My life’s pretty good…I married my sweetheart 7 years ago, we had our daughter, traveled, bought our first house, had our son, traveled some more and then I started teaching parents how they could also become the parents they wanted to become!
Here are some pictures of my cute little family...
As of writing this, I’m currently living in Salt Lake City, Utah.
As We Get To Know Each Other… You’ll Quickly Realize That I’m The Luckiest Person On Earth - So Let’s Talk About Where I Was July 2018…
I was 21 and living in Salt Lake City…
I had no idea how to deal with my daughter's tantrums and the independence she was demanding.
I had no clue what my daughter was trying to communicate with tantrums, whines, and cries.
I had never heard of positive, peaceful or mindful parenting before.
... and after one long and very difficult day I crawled in my bed and cried. I felt like such a failure and that my daughter must hate me. I felt like there was no way I was ever going to be the parent I wanted to be.
This meant I was never going to be a calm parent, I was never going to be a happy parent, a fun parent, or have a positive relationship with my children.
There’s a stupid myth out there.. that dominant parenting helps raise well-behaved kids.
… Well 99% of the time it doesn’t..
And if you want a positive relationship with your children, it’s almost never the answer...
I know this, because I tried.
I gave it everything I had.
I gave it my BEST shot.
And it didn’t work.
Because I played by the rules and I did everything right...
I hated it because I drifted so far from the parent I always hoped I would be!
I had goals, dreams and aspirations...I wanted more out of life with my children...
...and demanding my child to submit to my will 100% of the time wasn't going to work.
So I did what everyone else out there does in this situation.
I started looking for a way out.
I looked everywhere and a few months later I found it.
I stumbled upon a forum where a group of moms were talking about how they were "Positive Parents"
They shared situations and solutions that had experienced with their child, where they remained calm and helped their child work through a situation and avoid a tantrum,
or they asked their child to do something and their child actually listened and was instead excited to do what they were told to do.
Another one was when a mother helped her children come to agreements on their own and her children became best friends instead of them always fighting with each other.
This was a cool concept to me, and the more I researched, the more I found that most of them were just like me.
They were also recovering yellers, punishishers, and parents just like me who struggled every single day with their children!
The only difference was they were calm, they understood why their children misbehave and what shocked me the most was they were happy even during challenging times with their children.
Positive Parenting Is One Of The Most Legitimate And Easy-To-Use Methods If You Want To Become The Parent You Have Always Wanted To Be.
Do you want to stop yelling at your children? Becoming a positive parent teaches you to remain calm in challenging situations with your children.
Do you wish you could stop feeling like you are failing your children? Positive parenting is about letting go of perfection and giving yourself self-empathy and with this you can let go of feeling like you are failing your children.
Do you want a long lasting relationship with your children? Of course, most parents do, don’t they? How you parent today impacts your relationship with your children now and when they get older.
Do you want your children to obey because they WANT to or because they are forced to? When children feel connected to their parents, they actually want to obey and do good.
Positive parenting was the perfect thing for me...
And the best part that attracted me to doing it this way?
You Don’t Even Have To Punish, Yell, Threaten, Or Give Rewards!
Which means you can get your children to listen, and cooperate without yelling, giving punishments or threats.
All you have to do is commit to practicing one positive parenting strategy daily.
And That Was The Birth Of My Journey To Positive Parenting
After doing a bit of research - I started to apply the positive parenting strategies one by one and worked on breaking old generational patterns of parenting.
I had no idea how fast I would start to see massive changes in myself and my family.
All I knew was how to parent the way I was parented, what is called “generational parenting.”
Here's what so many of my situations with my children looked like with generational parenting…
And even though I had some knowledge about being a positive parent,
I still had to learn how to break my old parenting patterns and practice positive parenting strategies daily.
Looking back, the first 6 months were brutal.
More tantrums.
Hard work.
Stress.
Sleepless nights.
Arguing.
Frustration.
Anxiety.
Fear.
But over time, I was following everything I read in parenting books, blogs, articles and I started seeing a big difference in my children and in myself as a parent.
However, I felt like I went from one extreme to the next. At first I was too dominant and then became too permissive.
I felt like there was so much middle ground. Either you are hounding on your kids or your kids are hounding on you.
That was my life and I was ready to quit.
But thankfully, I didn't...
That Was 4 Years Ago, And Fast Forward To Today And It Almost Seems Like A Bad Dream
I proved the idea of “following the traditional life path” to be all wrong…
Instead of constantly bouncing between dominant and permissive parenting,
I found the middle ground! I found balance between rules and flexibility, independence and dependence, and how to parent in a way that didn’t cause blame, shame or punishment.
While I’m watching my children playing together and writing these words you’re reading,
I have my children getting along and playfully spending time together, instead of them fighting and arguing and demanding that I jump in and take control of the situation.
Unlike so many parents in the world who can’t leave their children alone together for 5 minutes without them getting into a huge fight,
Or parents who are so frustrated and drained because they are constantly dealing with, whining, complaining, tantrums, arguments and so many other things and make parenting unpleasant.
You see all these parents will spend their entire day and their energy trying to end the struggle, and calm the chaos but they do so by actually adding to the struggle and chaos.
So many parents don’t even realize that they are also a part of the problem they are facing with their children.
I did this for years, and it not only drove me crazy…
It drove me to the point where I was crying almost every night because I felt so angry, frustrated, and worn out! I felt like I totally SUCKED as a parent and sadly I did not enjoy being around my children. I was so excited when 8:00 PM rolled around because that meant I was kid free!
Instead of me being calm, happy, patient, loving, and understanding with my children, I was an angry, yelling, dominant and very unhappy parent which led my children to act out as a way to get their needs met. We were all angry and frustrated with each other.
Wanna Know What The Main Difference Is With Parenting Without Drama Model And That “Old Way” Of Doing Things?
Parents demand their children to obey, my children obey because they WANT to.
Rather than doing all those things I mentioned above in order to get your children to listen and cooperate, here’s what it looks like now..
And The Result Of Using This New Way?
Which Naturally Leads To...
I actually get to enjoy being around my children! I am not worried and I don’t feel like I'm on edge and ready to give a punishment because I don’t have to!
And the best part is that my children don’t spend their time worrying if mom is going to punish them, yell at them or send them to time-out. As a relaxed and calm parent. You get relaxed and calm children.
The really cool thing is that…
If you follow every single step that I teach, you end up with children who want to listen, children who are happy, and children who respect you and as a parent. You will feel like you have finally become the parent you have always wanted to be!
But it’s much more than that..
This New Perspective Will Actually Change Your Life Forever If You Do This...
How many parenting styles have you heard of throughout the years?
Dominant parenting has been around for generations. However, more and more studies are coming out that state that the dominant style of parenting is hurting our children more than helping them.
The #1 Mistake Everyone Else Makes Is [INSERT WHAT THE #1 MISTAKE IS--THIS HAS TO BE SOMETHING NEW TO THEM, THEY SHOULD GO AHHH THAT'S SO TRUE]
Here’s why:
There are two types of parents out there.
There are the "Dominant Parents" and there are the "Permissive Parents".
For my first 2 years - I was dominant
Dominant parents are always trying to get their children to listen, obey and cooperate by force.
Their strategy is to try to impose their will and control on their children.
And by focusing on this strategy - they spend a ton of time…
- Giving no question asks demands
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Get their children to obey with control
All of this requires time and A TON of energy.
The problem isn't the style of parenting itself, it's that parents keep trying to dominate over their children’s lives. This way of parenting may have worked 50, 60+ years, but culture and society have changed. Because of this, so many parents are using methods that no longer work.
And this is the same exact thing that happened to me before I figured out the Parenting Without Drama model.
Parenting WITH Your Children
That's right...
I said it, we parent WITH our children. Which means our children are involved in their own discipline, boundaries, and guidelines.
...Because I would rather spend 15 minutes with my children working with them through a challenging situation instead of spending years constantly struggling with the same misbehavior.
No thanks. I did that before and it sucks.
So here's the deal...
...I explain everything in my book, Parenting Without Drama. It's a 163 book that shows you everything you need to know.
So Here's The “Positive Parenting” Idea Behind The Parenting Without Drama Model
That's Right - Given A Choice Parents Would Rather Work With Their Children, Remain Calm, And Help Them Become Amazing Adults Than Being Stuck In A Constant Control Battle That Strains The Parent-child Relationship.
And that's where Parenting Without Drama comes in...
It does this beautifully in 5 easy steps...
And that’s the difference here.
When you parent WITH your children instead of OVER your children using this model, the results are amplified and sustainable.
Connection, respect and love is lost when parents use the old generational style of parenting.
Because generational parenting no longer works.
I’m not saying Generational Parenting is bad.
What I’m saying is if your goal is to build a long lasting and loving relationship with your children, parenting how you were once parented might actually be the thing that’s holding you back from getting it!
Generational Parenting requires control, hard set rules, constantly monitoring, high stress, punishments, rewards, manipulation, and all of your ENERGY!
Positive parenting just requires parents to be present.
And that's why this is different.
And you know what? I'll Stake My Entire Reputation On This One Promise
You can get your children to listen, obey, be responsible, and kind, while becoming the parent you want to be.
And once you start using this Parenting Without Drama model...
Getting your children to listen and obey isn’t something you ever need to worry about again - or even think about.
It’s something that children will learn to master and develop the skills for. Therefore, they won’t always need your constant help!
Here’s what I want you to do now: Grab your calendar right now - set it to 30 days from today.
Because if you implement everything I’m going to share with you in the Parenting Without Drama book,
That’s when you’ll start seeing a massive shift in your parenting and your children's behaviors.
That’s how easy this is.
I know how ridiculous that sounds…and cliche that sounds…
And Just A Few Years Ago… I’d Tell You That You’re Crazy If You’d Ever Believe Such A Model Existed…
…But, today I know better.
Listen:
I don’t care how many times you’ve tried to be a calm parent
I promise you this…
Anyone can be a positive parent with the right model (more on this below)..
Ultimately I want you to know one thing..
If I Can Do This, So Can You!
Because dozens of other parents are doing it too right now within the Parenting Without Drama Community...
and here's another reason
you too can do this
It took me 2.5 years to "figure this out"...
...and another 2 years to perfect it.
Which is safe to say that there isn't anything left for you to figure out.
I already did all of the hard work for you.
I figured it all out.
Which means...there’s nothing for you to “figure out”.
You just need to download this book and most important of all - implement it!
That’s it…
Here’s The Exact 5 Step System Revealed In The Parenting Without Drama Book For Parenting WIth Peace, Love & Connection.
Step 1: Pay Attention - You are observing a situation without judgment. EXAMPLE > "I can see that my child is mad because I won’t let them play video games until their homework is done”
Step 2: Be Aware - Being aware means you know what your child is feeling and needing. EXAMPLE > “ Maybe my child is mad because they need down time before doing homework because they just got home from school"
Step 3: Allow Self-Empathy - You address your feelings and apply your calming strategies. EXAMPLE > “I am starting to feel frustrated so I am going to step away and take three deep breaths”
Step 4: Care With Empathy - EXAMPLE > “I hear your saying that you have been waiting all day to play your video games and that you would like to play for an hour before doing homework.”
Step 5: Problem Solve - EXAMPLE > “ I wonder what we could do so that you get to play your video games and also get homework done…”
Those are the 5 steps to parenting with peace, love and connection.
All of this is revealed in the 163 page Parenting Without Drama ebook in step-by-step detail.
Making it a counterintuitive approach to get your children to listen and obey for the parent that seeks positive, calm and happy parenting!
And that's not all, because...
Here's What Else You're Going To Discover In The Parenting Without Drama
What’s Really Going On Inside Your Children's Head? So You Know Why Your Child Is Behaving a Certain Way. - All Explained On Page 24
All Explained On Page [INSERT PAGE]
The Secret Behind Setting Boundaries So You Can Set Boundaries That Actually Stick! - All Explained On Page 53
All Explained On Page [INSERT PAGE]
How Punishments, Time-outs, Yelling and Spanking Only Make a Child Act Out More, Which Prevents Them From WANTING To Change Their Behavior and Feel Connected. All Explained On Page 108
All Explained On Page [INSERT PAGE]
The Step-By-Step Process To Create Connection Before Asking For Cooperation - All Explained On Page 94
All Explained On Page [INSERT PAGE]
The Little Known Trick To Get Your Children to Listen Without You Having To Yell, Threaten or Punish! All Explained On Page 118
All Explained On Page [INSERT PAGE]
We’ll also show you how to become an empowered parent and become the parent you want to be!
If becoming a better parent who is calm, happy and has children who actually want to listen and cooperate is what you seek, this is the ultimate guide on how to get it.
Plus, I'm Going To Give You The Establishing Boundaries Bootcamp
Ever have a hard time setting boundaries for yourself?
Do you feel pushed around by your kids and find yourself giving in too much?
In this bootcamp, we’re going to go over the exact ways needed to set boundaries using positive parenting techniques and methods.
And Before You Download The Parenting Without Drama EBook…I Want You To Know That There's No Catch!
The truth is...
I was planning on selling this book for $97, but that meant I had to print copies of it, store them and ship them.
Which would eat up profits and also make it much more difficult to help more people.
Then I sold the Parenting Without Drama book for $57 and people downloaded it at that price....
...Which was great, but then I realized hey - this is an eBook it doesn't cost me anything to sell other than a few bucks to advertise it.
By Lowering The Price To $3, It Allows Me To Impact More People And Help Them Become The Positive Parents They Want To Be!
I consider that a true win/win...
Also in most cases, I take a loss when selling the book at this price.
It costs me just over $25.00 in advertising expenses to sell one book.
So why would I do that?
Simple. I'm making this offer with the idea that you'll be very impressed with what I'm giving you today, and you'll want to do more business with me in the future.
I'm betting that you'll enjoy the book so much, you'll call and ask to take additional classes or training from me.
Pretty straightforward.
Anyway - with all of that said, this is a limited offer.
You're Also Getting The Alternatives To Punishments Masterclass
Time outs, spanking, yelling, shaming, threatening and screaming at your kids isn’t and shouldn’t be the only ways to discipline your children. In fact, there are better ways to get your children to do what they need to do, and what you want them to do, without old-fashioned parenting methods. Use this masterclass to uncover positive parenting discipline alternatives.
And there's no charge for it. I want you to have this as my gift for checking out the book.
Plus I’m also including these amazing bonuses valued at $997
- How To Get Your Children To Listen Masterclass
- How To Deal With Big Emotions Masterclass
- Private Facebook Community
Oh. And in case you're wondering ...
Yes.
Of course there's a money-back guarantee.
In fact, I think it's …
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I know that before I get into anything…
…I’d like to know what I’m buying and that it’s backed by a solid money-back guarantee.
And I want you to be comfortable with this purchase.
And even though it’s only $3,
Like my grandpa used to say “Test drive the car before you drive it off the lot”…
So here’s what I’ve arranged:
Download the eBook, read it out, but more importantly apply what you learn there.
And if you’re not blown away by what you learn.
Then just shoot me an email and request a refund within 30 days.
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How’s that for the world’s best money back guarantee? I’d say pretty good!
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Until then, to your success,
Kara Ferwerda
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